I am a victim, a victim of verbal and emotional abuse. These words get easier with time to say but with how much time who is to say. Saying these words and understanding what they represent may not the first step in recovery from abuse but is a step nonetheless. As difficult as it may be I find that sharing my stories with others is a form of recovery and healing and is a necessary evil. This necessary evil is what I am encouraging in this blog. I want other victims to know they are not alone and that our stories are probably pretty similar. As victims it is ok to cry, to be angry, feel hatred and regret, frightened, anxious, and feel a host of other emotions as long as at the end of all of this you heal and are able to find peace, happiness, and yourself. And, as long as you learn the real meaning of a “good relationship”. In my next blog we will begin to dive into my stories so I hope you will come back to visit and share your own stories.